Online Dating: eharmony

February 15, 2011 Mrs TeePot

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I am once again throwing myself into the minefield that is online dating. Turns out I’m not so good with the real life stuff, who knew?! So online dating it is and my first port of call was Eharmony, they claim to match you on personality, on the important stuff that makes for a lasting relationship. To set up an account you have to answer a, fairly long, series of questions to determine your personality type and what you are looking for in a relationship. I will admit that I bought into that, I thought “that’s perfect, matches based on things that actually make you compatible,” but so far I am not impressed.

On the plus side the personality profile it created was accurate, I read it and I agree that it describes me very accurately. However…

I signed up during their “free communication fortnight” to discover that only certain parts of the communication were free. During the period that I was using a free account there were matches coming at me all the time, since I have paid these have slowed dramatically. Most of the matches are also entirely incompatible with me, many are outside the age range I specified, several are the exact opposite of what I said I wanted! Considering I spent a at least an hour, possibly two, filling out questions and “personality profiles” I am hugely disappointed by the matches I have been sent.

I had a chat with some friends who had tried it too and they said exactly the same things I felt, some moved to other dating sites, other’s gave up on online dating entirely. I definitely won’t be renewing my membership when the month is out. Match.com here I come!

Mrs TeePot also goes by the name Livi and is a tea drinking, chocolate munching, social networking writer. She is the Snapshot Round Up writer for Britmums and also moonlights at www.urbanvox.net adding some extra raunch to their "Fun & Frolics" column.

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  • Susankmann

    Good luck hon. Hope you meet whom you are looking for. x

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      Thanks sweety. So do I!

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  • http://twitter.com/adrenalynn_no Lynn Åsnes

    I’m SO in love with your header photo!! Gorgeous. I’ve never tried online dating, so no advice.. but best of luck!

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      Aww :) thanks hun! I love that photo of me! hehe! Thanks for the luck, will need it!