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Yesterday I read a post about bisexuality from Molly over at Molly’s Daily Kiss which was inspired by Rebel’s Notes Wicked Wednesday post about being bisexual and it kicked off a thought that’s been going through my head at various intervals for a while now; what/who am I?
I identified as bisexual for years, as a young teen I came out to my friends and was quite happy and content with it. I like women, and I like men, ergo bisexual. Or so I thought. But then I grew up and found Fetlife and the kinky community in general and a whole host of other words for sexuality with a whole host of definitions and suddenly I had no idea who I was anymore.
Since being so rudely awoken to the variety of humanity and the options available I have been completely bewildered, baffled and befuddled by my own sexuality. I’ve pondered a number of labels but now none seem to fit, so I’m stuck in my little, unlabeled box and no way to explain to people my sexual preference, and that’s something that’s fairly important in my opinion.
So the situation is this; I like men, I like women but mostly I just like personality. How do you identify?